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Treatment, recovery, and the miracle of childbirth
I began having pain in 2002. Although for the most part I was able to continue to using tampons, intercourse was completely out due to the pain. For the first 4 or 5 years, although I had general tenderness, I was for the most part ok – except if there was any attempt at intercourse. Slowly the pain began to get worse and I did start to have daily pain, problems sitting, wearing jeans, etc. Once diagnosed (after many incorrect diagnoses and gyno appts), I tried everything minus surgery for 5 years – topical creams, oral meds, hormone therapy, PT, relaxation, biofeedback, psych work, and even botox injections. Nothing worked; the botox provided some temporary relief, but the pain never went away and I certainly still wasn’t able to have intercourse. The doctor and I discussed surgery, but he didn’t think it was an option for me. I moved and took a break from treatment.
When ready to pursue again, I learned my hormones were off again, so I went back on treatment and my new doctor and I discussed options from here. Since I’d essentially already tried everything, he suggested looking into surgery. Whether surgery was an option or not would be determined if the nerve block test went well. We did the nerve block test and it was the first time in almost 7 years that I honestly didn’t feel any pain with poking or prodding. I felt such relief and joy and scheduled surgery ASAP. I had surgery Jan 09. The first few days post-op were tough, but you get through it. I went from ice to sitz baths, to a short walk (with ice), and back again. I actually started working from home about 4 days afterward and was back in my office within 2 weeks. Granted, I was moving slow, and sitting was challenging at times, but otherwise, I was ok. I started PT a couple of months later, but in hindsight it was too early and too much for me as I had a few very minor setbacks – primarily because I was pushing too much too fast and I wasn’t healed yet. I stopped PT and then restarted about a month or so later. PT this time was much, much better. After a little more time to mentally prepare to attempt intercourse again, my husband and I were finally able to have sex (PAIN FREE) about 8 months after surgery – an incredibly joyous time for us!
It just got better from there as I learned I was pregnant shortly thereafter. I just had an amazing beautiful little boy! Although I really had hoped I would be able to have kids, I had essentially lost hope before the surgery. I am incredibly glad I had the surgery! Hindsight, I wish I had pushed for it earlier. Surgery is obviously a personal decision, but I really am so glad that I had it done – absolutely no regrets or second thoughts. Now onward to the joys of motherhood… I couldn’t have asked for anything more.