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FOD and HSDD help in NYC
Through a combination of intimacy coaching and physical techniques practice, women can achieve amazing transformations in both desire and function. It won’t surprise most women to hear that desire and function have a very high correlation, meaning there is a link between the two, and it is hard to achieve one without the other.
Women who can’t orgasm, or orgasm but only through masturbation, and more specifically, masturbating alone, tend to have an uneasy view of themselves as a sexual being. She may think of herself as smart, creative, funny, attractive, loving, energetic: self perceptions that come more easily. But, to think of herself as a perspiring, panting, moaning, undulating and ejaculatory woman is entirely different: it’s a very difficult perception to accept and embrace.
Further, embracing a healthy view of the sexual self is not solely psychological exercise of feat. In fact, like most things that people get good at or comfortable with, it actually takes practice being that person: thinking about, or sitting on a couch talking to a psychologist or a significant other about better arousal and function is totally insufficient to make substantial changes.
The problem with practice comes from many sources: 1) you are not that motivated; 2) your ‘significant other’, though a great guy, is not trained nor the most qualified to help; 3) you may not have a significant other and it’s guaranteed your online date or bar fling is not going to help; 4) all health professionals in the U.S. are bound by very strict laws precluding their ability to help on the most basic practical level. Health professionals can only talk to you about sex, or help you with specific medications or surgery IF there is a medical reason for the issues, but they simply may not ‘help’ you learn, practice or train to orgasm or enjoy sex.
The Feminine Health Organization in New York City offers drug-free and surgery-free solutions to low sexual desire, inability to orgasm, and to hyperactive sexual desire. Every woman has her own physicality and chemistry, her own personal history and upbringing, and cultural beliefs. While some have traumas, others have lived quiet and benign existences.
Yet, with all of their differences, when all of a woman’s individual factors manifest themselves in her sexuality, the results can be startlingly common among all women. Women in good physical health, no serious clinical issues, and not too terrified of sex have a common diagnosis: a complete lack of preparedness. It is actually a form of societal sexual neglect caused by (beyond contraception) an absence of female centered sexual education and a complete absence of focused and regular safe-sex techniques instruction and practice.
It is a preventable and curable dysfunction based on correcting incorrect assumptions, reversing bad (or worse) technique, dispelling unhelpful anecdotes and unlearning negative life lessons. Bad sexual techniques absolutely do frustrate her, and in turn, frustrate her partner. He feels inadequate. She feels resentful. She suggests counseling, he agrees, and together they talk about how they feel. NOTHING GETS SOLVED!
And, over time, she feels less and less sexual, and in turn, it is more and more difficult to satisfy her sexually. For most women, this is a downward spiral of less and less sex and less and less enjoyment – and it starts very young and occurs very fast. The lack of sexual contact, the tension in relationships, or lack of relationships, adds to more emotional strain and feelings of sadness or depression. This cycle leads to more dangerous situations such as drinking or drug use, unhappiness, severe physical discomfort associated with lack of genital stimulation, actual clinical depression, and even thoughts of or attempts at suicide.
For some women, the sexual urges are harnessed and to create a strong libido, where she engages in sex easily and effortlessly. Yet, even when there is orgasm, the lack of satisfaction in terms of emotional and physical release from orgasm can drive her for more and more sexual contact. This puts her in her own dangerous spiral of unsafe situations at parties, night clubs, and on blind dates where in her eagerness for more sex, she becomes victimized and/or traumatized. And, most often, the trauma is not from a ‘sexual predator’, though it happens. Most trauma associated with hyperactive sexual desire comes 1) from sexually transmitted diseases; 2) when a man rejects her advances and makes her feel awkward and out of control; and 3) when he accepts her sexual advances but is completely disinterested in her afterwards.
Feminine Health coaching, training and practice session sets out to correct centuries of neglect and bad information. Through both discussion and practice experimentation on specific techniques such as where touch, how firm, duration, frequency of contact; through meditation, visualization and concentration exercises during sexual intercourse amazing progress towards orgasm – orgasm beyond solo masturbation – is attainable. Even if orgasm with intercourse is not achieved, achieving shared orgasms via manual and/or oral stimulation improves interest, drive, excitement and pleasure to incredibly new heights and bounds!
Hyperactive sexual women learn how to prolong orgasm into multiple orgasm, become better ejaculatory, use multiple orifices and firmer and more powerful thrusts to reach a deeper satisfaction, which leads to a marked reduction in impulsive sexual urges.
To keep it ‘clean and legal’, the Feminine Health counselor must volunteer, accept no pay, no fees and no compensation. His rewards are the knowledge that he is helping a woman and making a positive difference in the life of his clients; and of course, the possibility and opportunity to have superior, focused and tremendously orgasmic sex with a beautiful and soon-to-be orgasmic woman.
Best of all, you have the comfort, security and sanity knowing your training partner is monogamous and exclusive to you throughout the duration of regularly scheduled meetings in our sexually focused training programs, if desired! This is for the simple reason that a tired and sexually spent teacher is not a good teacher for you.
Contact info@femininehealth.org or visit their site and use the contact form. Ask questions, get an idea about specific training ideas, venues and techniques, and if it’s right for you, you are highly encouraged and urged to start training with a femininehealth.org trainer right away!